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About This Guide:

The Guide to Ascendant Leadership is meant to communicate what Ascendant Leadership is, and how to begin practicing the principles and expanding your impact as a leader.  

So why did we create it? Because we believe that challenging times call for elevated leadership. And we believe impactful leadership development should be accessible to everyone. 

This resource you’re reading is but one part of that. To understand our full perspective, and what sets us apart in the world of leadership development, check out this blog post. And consider joining our free leadership development community, Means to Ascend.

Enjoy, and welcome to the community.

Grounded in Awareness,
Driven by Vision

Leadership isn’t about title, charisma, or having all the answers.
Sure, those things are part of it (some more than others).

Leadership is also not reserved for extroverts or executives.
And it certainly doesn’t begin the moment that someone calls you “boss” or looks to you as a supervisor.

It’s not about control; it’s about cultivating growth. It’s not about meeting a moment; it’s about intentionally building something that lasts and can leave a legacy. 
  • They were intentional.
  • They elevated others. 
  • They simply made things better & inspired others to do the same.

But even well-meaning leaders miss the mark. Some try too hard to be liked. Others lean on outdated command-and-control habits. They micromanage. They play favorites. They delegate without clarity – or hold on too tightly. They rule by fear. Feedback becomes a fire alarm instead of a regular conversation. And in the name of efficiency, they forget the people doing the work.

That’s when things start to unravel. Sound familiar?

There’s good news, however. These patterns can be recognized, and more importantly, changed. What matters most isn’t getting it right all the time, but being willing to reflect, adjust, and grow. The strongest leaders aren’t the ones who never make mistakes. They’re the ones who notice, take accountability, and choose to do better the next day. Again and again.

Gandhi didn’t issue status updates. Richard Branson doesn’t lead with policy manuals.

While Gandhi and Branson are markedly different from one another, that’s not the case so much when it comes to looking at their leadership styles.

What they have in common is a transformational approach – the kind of leadership that moves people, not just projects.

Transactional leadership

is built around tasks, checklists, and control. It’s focused on performance, process, and making sure people meet expectations. There’s a place for that –  especially in high-compliance or fast-paced environments. But it has limits.

Transformational leadership

operates differently. It’s about trust, vision, and belief – not just in outcomes, but in people. It encourages growth, autonomy, & emotional investment. It doesn’t just get work done. It changes how people feel about the work and what they believe they’re capable of.

Leaders vs. Managers

LeaderManager
Advocates for EmployeesTask Oriented
Coaches & DevelopsExecutes Policies & Procedures
Creates Vision & InspiresPlans & Controls
Builds CapabilitiesManages the Budget
Champions SafetyMaintains Control & Order
Creates Environment for ChangeDelivers against Targets
To be sure, there’s a time and place for leaders and managers. 

Both do work to the same ends.  And organizations need both.

In moments of change or challenge, people don’t look for someone to manage process. They look for someone
to lead them through things. When the goal is growth, not just output, leadership is what makes the difference.

What You Do Matters More
Than What You Say

The strongest leaders aren’t just thinkers. They’re doers. They show up in real time, through real behavior, in ways that set the tone and shift what’s possible for the people around them.

Here’s what that looks like in action:
Leadership isn’t a trait you’re born with or a title you’re handed – it’s one that’s nurtured on a long & intentional journey.
Whether you’re managing your first team or shaping the direction of an entire organization, this model gives you the roadmap to grow, develop others, and lead with lasting impact.

Self-Awareness Sets the Stage

Put simply: if leadership is a practice,
self-awareness is the first step.

Leaders with high self-awareness communicate more effectively, they build stronger relationships, and adjust their style based on what the moment – or their team – needs. They’re also better equipped to manage stress, receive feedback, and stay grounded when things get hard.

When it comes to practicing self awareness, it’s key to incorporate outside input, otherwise it’s easy enough to get caught in a bit of a self-reinforcing feedback loop.

That’s where credible well-rounded assessment tools can make a real difference.

Here are some that we employ in our work with ascending leaders:

The Workplace Big Five

The Workplace Big Five is a research-backed personality framework that goes beyond surface-level labels to help leaders understand their energy levels, communication preferences, and where they may thrive or struggle in different roles.

The Workplace Big 5 isn’t about boxing people in – it’s about helping them lead more authentically and manage the tasks (and people) that drain them with more intention. For example, someone with a high need for stability often develops reliable coping strategies for navigating stress. They know when to delegate, how to prioritize effectively, and how to keep themselves – and their teams – grounded when pressure is high

Take a look at gives leaders insights into five core dimensions:

  1. Need for Stability: Reflects how calmly or intensely a person responds to stress and pressure.
  2. Extraversion: Indicates whether someone recharges through social interaction or solitude.
  3. Originality: Measures openness to new ideas, change, and creative problem-solving.
  4. Accommodation: Captures how cooperative or assertive someone is in group dynamics.
  5. Consolidation: Describes a person’s level of self-discipline, organization, and persistence.

Leadership Literally Starts with You

Ask any high-performing leader what their biggest constraint is, and most will say the same thing: time. You might even hear them say, “There are not enough hours in the day.”

It’s not that they don’t work hard – it’s that there’s always more to do than time allows. The real challenge isn’t just time management. It’s priority alignment. It’s knowing what matters most and having the discipline to protect it.

That means stepping back from the constant churn of tasks and getting clear on your values – the things that guide you, personally and professionally. When you know what matters, it becomes easier to identify what doesn’t. And that’s when real focus begins.

Every leader juggles tasks, deadlines, and decisions. But not all work is created equal.

Some of it moves the needle. Some of it fills the day.

A Rising Tide Raises All Ships

Just as there’s no one way to lead, there’s also no “right” way to lead.
What makes the difference is how it’s expressed and resolved:

Managers focus on systems and structure

they organize workflows, execute policies, manage budgets, and ensure targets are met. Their role is essential for stability and day-to-day operations.

Leaders coach
and develop

They advocate for their people, create clarity in chaos, and inspire others toward a shared vision. They don’t just direct work – they elevate the people doing it.

The Most Common Causes of Conflict

  1. Look for blame instead of solutions
  2. Elevate personal agendas
  3. Have different perspectives
  4. Spend large amounts of time together
  5. Communicate differently
  6. Have poor emotional regulation skills
  7. Have expectations that are not
    communicated and/or met
  8. Have different priorities, goals of timelines
  9. Depend on one other to “get the job done”
  10. Receive inadequate training
“An ounce of prevention is worth
a pound of cure.”
Engagement isn’t about how many hours someone puts in. It’s about how much of themselves they bring to the work – their energy, creativity, care, and commitment.

That’s where strong leadership makes the difference. It’s not about quick wins or surface-level perks. It’s about creating purpose, offering meaningful recognition, and building trust over time – the kind of environment where intrinsic motivation can thrive and people choose to give their best.

Engaged vs. Disengaged Traits

You can’t always measure engagement by output alone. The real signals show up in attitude, behavior, and how people respond when no one’s watching.

Leadership Isn’t What You Say. It’s What You Do.
  1. Model – Live the values. Set the standard. Go first.
  2. Inspire – Share a clear, energizing vision of what’s possible.
  3. Challenge – Question the status quo. Push for better.
  4. Enable – Remove barriers. Empower others. Share the work.
  5. Encourage – Recognize effort. Reinforce belief. Celebrate wins.

You don’t have to do all five perfectly every day. But you do have to practice them with consistency and care.

OCDAC: A Coaching Conversation Model

Great coaching conversations don’t have to be long, but they do need to be intentional. The OCDAC model gives leaders a structure that works across nearly every type of development dialogue.

Great coaching conversations don’t have to be long, but they do need to be intentional.
The OCDAC model gives leaders a structure that works across nearly every type of development dialogue.

In Conclusion, A Call to (Extraordinary) Action

Leadership isn’t about waiting for the right title, the perfect team, or the next big opportunity. It’s about how you choose to show up – today, in this moment, with what you have and who you lead.

What you’ve just read isn’t a checklist. It’s a mindset shift. It’s a framework for showing up with more clarity, courage, and intention – not just when it’s easy, but when the stakes are high and it’s anything but easy. 

If you’re here, it’s because you already believe better leadership is possible – in yourself and in the people around you. So take the next step. Practice the verbs. Have the conversations. Build the trust.

And remember: extraordinary leadership isn’t reserved for the few. It’s built, day by day, by those willing to do the work.